Why Women Don’t Have to Wait to Be Chosen
On Learning to Act on My Own Desire
Journal
Real stories from real people navigating the beautiful mess of non-monogamy. From first-date butterflies to jealousy spirals and everything in between—these writers are sharing their unfiltered journeys so you can learn, relate, and feel a little less alone in yours.
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5 Things I Wish I Knew About Non-Monogamy
Lessons From the Parts No One Warns You About
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Dating Separately vs. Dating Together
The psychological tradeoffs of two different dating styles
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Why Watching Your Partner Get Hit On Can Feel So Hot
When Someone Else’s Desire Brings You Closer
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Freedom Without Care Is Just Avoidance
On Autonomy, Accountability, and Staying Connected
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Loving Without Owning
What Commitment Looks Like Without Possession
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The Night Non-Monogamy Becomes Real
What No One Tells You About Watching Your Partner Go on a First Date
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Jealousy Isn’t the Problem, Silence Is
Thoughts on navigating jealousy in non-monogamy
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What To Buy The Bisexual, Polyamorous Person In Your Life
For that special girlie or non-binary BB in your life.
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Yes, I'm still Non-Monogamous
How to Stand in Your Truth When Talking About Non-Monogamy
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What my break from dating has taught me about non-monogamy
Non-monogamy doesn't look the same for everyone and that is the beauty of it
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Becoming a Parentless Adult: A Hidden Rite of Passage
Losing both parents shifts consciousness in unexpected ways. A reflection on radical self-responsibility and the initiation of becoming your own anchor.
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Your Pocket Guide: How to Come Out as Poly to Family & Friends
If you're into that sort of thing.
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The Unicorn with Experience: What a Decade of Ethical Non-Monogamy Has Taught Me
From threesomes and breakups to velvet sofas and dawn-lit revelations, my ENM journey hasn’t been perfect — but it’s been real, raw, and completely mine.
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"You're in an open relationship? Oh, I could never do that."
I thought so, too — until I tried it.
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Coming soon
This is The Poly Pocket.
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We Shouldn't Have Fallen in Love - Part 1
Some things I recently learned about ENM, the hard way.
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How Intersectional Non-Monogamy Can Change Your Life For The Better: With Michelle (@polyamorouswhileasian)
We're back!
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How To *Dirty Talk* Without Feeling Embarrassed: With Rain Sunae
Does the thought of talking dirty make you cringe?
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Is the Bedroom Sacred?
Some musings on inviting other people into the bed I share with my partner.
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How To *Actually* Incorporate Toys In The Bedroom: With Sarah Tomchesson & Lovehoney
Want to explore bringing s*x toys into the bedroom with your partner?
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Dating Others to Get Closer
Yes, dating other people has brought me and my primary partner closer together!
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Explaining The Rise of Smut & How It Can Mix With Sexual Exploration: With Melissa Saavedra
Have you ever found yourself reaching for a steamy, sexy novel?
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Some Thoughts on Jealousy
A look at the gifts that jealousy has to offer.
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How To Be a Unicorn, Find One & Join Unicorn Culture Ethically: With Margo Renate
Welcome to Unicorn Culture (coined by us, obv.) The Unicorn life is an interesting one + if you've ever wondered what it takes (or what it is) this episode is f
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Rejection is Rejection, even if you're Polyamorous.
You don't have to be single and monogamous to feel the sting of rejection.
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How To Use Ethical p0rn To Ignite Intimacy & Self-Love: With Avril Louise
How does p0rn fit into your self-care routine?
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You are not Bad, Maybe you're just Non-Monogamous.
My journey from guilt and shame into fully embracing how I love.
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How To Get Back To The Basics of Sex & Actually Enjoy It: With Rebecca Alvarez Story
We live in a day and age where there are so many things about sex out there: How you should do it, what you should wear, the positions you need to try, the way
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Having A Disability Doesn't Mean You Can't Have a Spicy Sex Life: With Kelly Gordon
Disability and sex can co-exist.
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How I Changed My Love Hate Relationship with the Honeymoon Phase
How I learned to appreciate it for its beauty and embrace its inevitable transformation.
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The Power of Loving Your Gender Identity: With Anna Lisa Wagner
"I had been living my life this way for 30 years.
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Supporting my Primary Partner Through Heartbreak
Supporting a partner through heartbreak (over someone else) isn't always straightforward.
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Co-dependency is Killing your Relationship
Let's talk about co-dependency and how to avoid it.
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How Couples Can Find Lasting Intimacy & Relationships With Dr. Viviana Coles
You may know Dr.
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Nudity & Sexuality Aren't The Same Thing: An Honest Chat With C.C. Flight
Did you know that nudity and sexuality aren't the same thing?
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The Vagina is Complex: A Deep Dive With Lindsay Wynn
What do you get when you combine a hot spring, sex and a vagina?
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It's Not Just a Sex Toy, It's a Lifestyle: VDOM
This isn't just a sex toy, it's also a lifestyle.
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What It's Like To Attend A Dinner Party, But Naked: Charlie Ann Max
Let's go to a dinner party, but naked.
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How Queer Love and Ethical Non-Monogamy Saved My Life: Margo Renate
Queer love is a savior for many — and so is ethical non-monogamy.
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What is Vulvodynia? Breaking Down The Condition Vulva-Havers Suffer Silently With
What is vulvodynia?
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Why I Am Obsessed with Relationships
From shaving her head and hitchhiking across the US at 18, to reopening her heart to love. A personal story of isolation, healing, and the courage to connect.
