Polyamory Haters Are Just Telling On Themselves

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I don't care if people hate on me for being polyamorous. Because polyamory haters are just ignorant victims of mononormativity who are insecure that you make them question their relationships. Why listen to people who don’t know what they’re talking about? Hating on polyamory is ✨popular✨ but it doesn’t make it right.

Every polyamorous person has gone through a process of questioning their relationships and making a conscious decision on what they want to do. Most of them have had some experience of monogamy and therefore needed to break out of a monogamous mindset and social order.

I can’t say the same for a lot of monogamous people (though shoutout to the intentionally and consciously monogamous folks, you’re awesome!), so their opinions about my relationships literally do not matter to me. People who are actually secure in their monogamous relationships never waste their time hating on polyamorous people.

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