ENM Resources
The best books, podcasts, and communities to help you navigate ethical non-monogamy — whether you're just starting out or years into your journey.
📚 Essential Books
The Ethical Slut
The definitive guide to non-monogamy. Covers jealousy, communication, and building relationships outside the mainstream.
Polysecure
Explores attachment theory in the context of consensual non-monogamy. Essential reading if you want to understand your attachment style in ENM.
More Than Two
A practical guide to ethical polyamory. Focuses on putting the people in your relationships first.
Designer Relationships
A guide to happy monogamy, positive polyamory, and optimistic open relationships for all relationship styles.
Redefining Our Relationships
A short, accessible introduction to radical relationship structures and challenging monogamy norms.
Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage
A personal memoir exploring what it means to live an authentically open life. Great for those questioning monogamy for the first time.
🎙️ Podcasts
Multiamory
One of the most popular ENM podcasts. Covers communication tools, relationship skills, and real stories from non-monogamous people.
Normalizing Non-Monogamy
Personal stories and lived experiences from people in all kinds of non-monogamous relationships. Great for feeling less alone.
Polyamory Weekly
One of the longest-running polyamory podcasts. Covers everything from navigating jealousy to finding community.
The Relationship Anarchy Podcast
Explores relationship anarchy, solo poly, and alternatives to the traditional relationship escalator.
🌐 Communities
r/polyamory
400,000+ members sharing experiences, asking questions, and supporting each other through all aspects of polyamorous life.
r/nonmonogamy
A broader community for anyone practicing or curious about ethical non-monogamy in any form.
Nymph Community
Our own community of open-minded people. Connect with others navigating ENM, share resources, and find local events.
Poly.Land
Thoughtful articles, personal essays, and a supportive space for people in all kinds of non-monogamous relationships.
Loving More
One of the oldest polyamory organizations. Hosts retreats, events, and publishes educational resources.
