Why Women Don’t Have to Wait to Be Chosen
On Learning to Act on My Own Desire
Coaches & Therapists
Savita Joshi
Certified Headspace Coach specializing in non-monogamy, jealousy navigation, and authentic connections.
Laura Ramadei
Certified Sexologist passionate about dismantling shame and embracing radical authenticity in love and relationships.
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RELATIONSHIPS
RELATIONSHIPS
5 Things I Wish I Knew About Non-Monogamy
Lessons From the Parts No One Warns You About
IDENTITY
Dating Separately vs. Dating Together
The psychological tradeoffs of two different dating styles
RELATIONSHIPS
Why Watching Your Partner Get Hit On Can Feel So Hot
When Someone Else’s Desire Brings You Closer
GUIDES
Q&A: Nonmonogamous Parenting
Can you build a family while living ethically non-monogamously? Here's how to think about stability, structure, and raising kids in a poly household.
KINK
Freedom Without Care Is Just Avoidance
On Autonomy, Accountability, and Staying Connected
RELATIONSHIPS
Safety First
Our nervous system's need for safety can inhibit repair. The remedy is mutual courage and mutual generosity.
RELATIONSHIPS
Loving Without Owning
What Commitment Looks Like Without Possession
RELATIONSHIPS
The Night Non-Monogamy Becomes Real
What No One Tells You About Watching Your Partner Go on a First Date
RELATIONSHIPS
Jealousy Isn’t the Problem, Silence Is
Thoughts on navigating jealousy in non-monogamy
GUIDES
So You're Going To A Play Party
Everything I wish I knew. From the Safety Director at a prominent play party in LA.
RELATIONSHIPS
Q&A: My Partner Lashes Out, Then Asks Me to Hold Space
When your partner expects you to hold space for their anger—but you can't. Plus: how to stay grounded when opening up brings big feelings.
