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When the Desire for Romance & Relationship Makes Casual Connections Lackluster in Non-Monogamy

When the Desire for Romance & Relationship Makes Casual Connections Lackluster in Non-Monogamy

What do you do when you love sex but also love love and the desire for deeper connections starts to make casual dating boring.

New Relationship Energy Is Intoxicating. But What Are You Actually Chasing?

New Relationship Energy Is Intoxicating. But What Are You Actually Chasing?

On self-worth, validation, and why non-monogamy will expose every crack in your foundation, whether you're ready or not.

The Confusing Conversations about 'Going with the Flow' in Polyamory & Non-Monogamy

The Confusing Conversations about 'Going with the Flow' in Polyamory & Non-Monogamy

Toxic positivity in our community invalidates difficult or hurtful experiences in casual connections instead of making space for them. Do we ALWAYS need to spea

I Got Scabies. Here's What Non-Monogamy Taught Me About Sexual Health.

I Got Scabies. Here's What Non-Monogamy Taught Me About Sexual Health.

On sexual health, skin-to-skin reality, and the conversation worth having before you need to.

You Knew EXACTLY What You Were Doing When You Led Me to Nowhere…

You Knew EXACTLY What You Were Doing When You Led Me to Nowhere…

An essay about toxic situationships with childish men

Loving in a Season (And Grieving When It Ends)

Loving in a Season (And Grieving When It Ends)

On the connections that mattered deeply, ended quietly, and never got a proper goodbye

There Is Nothing Wrong With You

There Is Nothing Wrong With You

On villainizing yourself for who you are and finally, slowly, letting that go

What To Do If Your Partner Is In A Toxic Relationship

What To Do If Your Partner Is In A Toxic Relationship

A lot of polyamorous people will NOT like what I have to say about this, but…your partner is unfortunately allowed to make the choice to be in shitty, toxic, a

The Mirror Effect

The Mirror Effect

What new connections reveal about you, and what to do with it

Compersion: The Emotion Nobody Taught Us

Compersion: The Emotion Nobody Taught Us

Yes, it's real. Yes, you can feel it. Here's how.

Polyamory Isn’t Inherently Radical

Polyamory Isn’t Inherently Radical

I will die on this hill: polyamory is not an inherently radical practice, because it very much depends on the way you practice it.

Not Every Polyamorous Community Is Safe

Not Every Polyamorous Community Is Safe

Ever joined a polyamorous “community” and then noticed a charismatic and very obvious ringleader everyone is trying to impress, and who can do no wrong?

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