Bisexual Visibility Month
September is Bisexual Visibility Month, and I’m thrilled to announce I’ll be hosting another panel in Chicago - but this time, we’re making it unapologetically
Journal
Real stories from real people navigating the beautiful mess of non-monogamy. From first-date butterflies to jealousy spirals and everything in between—these writers are sharing their unfiltered journeys so you can learn, relate, and feel a little less alone in yours.
The Erotics of Almost Hating Someone
On enemies-to-lovers, queer desire, and the fine line between eroticizing jealousy and letting competition win the relationship.
Why Does My Partner’s Date Make Me Spiral, Even When I Trust Them?
Trust and jealousy are not opposites — you can trust your partner completely and still feel your stomach drop the moment they walk out the door for a date. That
Bisexuality Through the Lens of Self Desire
When the first woman you find yourself attracted to is you...
How To Catch a Unicorn
Dismantling power dynamics and biphobia in non-monogamy
The Closet Doesn't End When You Come Out
A Pride Month reflection on bisexuality, polyamory, visibility, and the courage to be seen (Plus an invitation to a free online community gathering)
Unpacking the Layers
Yin, Svadhaya and the Rebellion of Stillness
PRIDE on the Mat
What Yoga Taught me about Love, Identity and Unlearning the Binary
What Pride Month Means When You Love Outside the Lines 🌈
What does Pride mean when you love outside the lines? Kitty Chambliss reflects on queerness, ethical non-monogamy, and 20+ years of loving authentically.
I Just Finished the Heated Rivalry Book at Midnight. Here’s What This ENM Relationship Coach Can’t Stop Thinking About.
An ENM coach reads a romance novel at midnight and finds something real. Here's what Heated Rivalry taught Kitty Chambliss about love, trust, and non-monogamy.
She’d been healing her whole life. As she approached her 60’s, she finally found the missing piece.
Gina spent decades healing — therapy, books, workshops. Then, approaching 60, she found what had always been missing. A real story about ENM and transformation.
He was terrified of losing him. Five years later… they’re engaged. 💍
Calvin was so afraid of losing the man he loved that he could not breathe. Five years later, he is engaged. A real story about trust and non-monogamy.
Why I Left Counseling to Become a Coach
Insurance audits, ethics boards silent on fascism, and hiding half her life at work — an ENM coach explains why she walked away from therapy to serve her.
I’ve Been Non-Monogamous for 10 Years - Here’s Where It All Began
I’ve been non-monogamous for 10 whole years - and it all started in 2016 when I was still at school! I was 17 years old, and in my first open relationship with
How I Did Gay Sex Wrong for YEARS
Bad queer experiences do not invalidate your identity. One bisexual person explains how discovering role and type finally made it click.
My Positionality: Revolving Orbs
Blackness, atheism, non-monogamy — identity isn't a fixed point, it's a constellation. How positionality shapes the way we love and connect.
Black. Queer. Polyam. Pastor’s Kid. Yoga Therapist.
Everything they said I couldn’t be…and how I became it anyway
The Healing Power of Hockey Horn
Heated Rivalry as trauma reclamation.
Femmes Can Fuck Too
Written by : Tamar Simone Weir Even though Sex and the City is quite problematic, Eurocentric, transphobic and has not aged well, something that I appreciate ab
“Being Poly and Bi — Polyamorous Bisexuals Aren’t Bad Bisexuals”
It's Bisexuality Awareness Week - so be aware that I am proudly bi and polyamorous! 💕
lets go dress shopping; gender expansion for youth & the next gen
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I've worked in many schools, in many educational spaces, and with LOTS of kids, so many it's hard to count....
Stop Falsely Advertising Polyamory Socials!
I have no problem with kink, fetish, and/or swinging events - I’ve attended a few myself! - and obviously, the groups overlap a lot. But please, if your event i
Polyamory-Bashing In The Queer Community
When queer people mock polyamory, they undermine the very freedoms the community fights for. Leanne Yau calls out the contradiction and asks us to do better.
Why The One Penis/Vagina Policy Is Problematic
The one penis or vagina policy isn't a boundary — it's biphobia with a relationship label. Here's why it's problematic and needs to go.
Why Saying “Trans People Are The Best of Both Worlds” Is Problematic
Dear bi/pansexuals, I know you THINK you're being trans-affirming when you say things like "As a bi/pansexual, I love pre-op trans women because they've got the
You Are Bisexual and Polyamorous Enough.
Friendly reminder that bisexual polyamorous folks don't owe you a polycule with partners of different genders, and aren't “less bisexual" if they have multiple
RENT's Maureen Taught Me to Be a Chaotic Bisexual
Pride month always brings back memories of coming out - and mine starts with a wild, chaotic bisexual on screen.
What is Symbiosexuality? A Guide to This Emerging Microlabel
Symbiosexuality means being attracted to a couple's dynamic, not the individuals. Here's what this emerging microlabel means and who it fits.
Friendly Reminder: Polyamorous Lesbians Exist
“Polyamory is something that sex-crazed men made up to manipulate their girlfriends!"
It’s Okay To Be Loudly Bisexual and Monogamous
The idea that one can't/shouldn't be loud and proud about being bisexual in a monogamous relationship without it being viewed as cheating comes from the harmful
No, Polyamorous People Aren’t More Privileged
Friendly reminder: polyamorous people are FAR more likely to be queer and/or trans than the average monogamous population, and in general far more likely to be
Bisexuals Don't Owe You Shit
Why I'm still talking about being bisexual... and Love is Blind.
What Bisexual Really Means - And No, It’s Not What You Think
PSA: the "bi" in "bisexual" does not mean "attraction to both men and women". It means "both homosexual and heterosexual" -attraction to your own gender and OTH
My Journey to Overcoming Internalised Biphobia
In 2016, I started identifying as bi, and I have been dating across the gender spectrum since 2017. But, it took nearly a decade for me to develop security in m
I’m Agender Because I’m Autistic.
I'm agender because I'm too autistic to even think about gender as a concept. There are days when I literally don't feel human because of all the social rules t
Its My 4 Year Page-iversary!
It’s been 4 years since I started this page 🎂 Let me re-introduce myself...
🏳️🌈Happy Pride!🏳️🌈
Happy Pride! A celebration of loving freely, queerly, and unapologetically — and what it really means to build a life on your own terms.
Your Doctor Needs To Know
In 2016, when I was 40 freaking years old and a divorced mother of three, I had a doctor tell me I should not consent to having barrier-free sex with anyone who
I’m Autistic and Polyamorous. Here’s Why It Works For Me.
April is Autism Awareness Month, so I thought I’d talk about what it’s like being autistic and polyamorous. I realised there weren’t a huge number of resources
Where Are The Non-FFM Polyamorous Triads?
A common complaint I see on the internet when it comes to polyamory is, “Why is it always one man and two women?” While there are definitely many MMF/FMF, FFF,
