Gen Z Is Horny, They’re Just Not Fucking
This week, Playboy published their “2026 Gen Z Sex Survey,” which attempts to give us an answer about wtf is happening with the state of fucking.
Journal
Real stories from real people navigating the beautiful mess of non-monogamy. From first-date butterflies to jealousy spirals and everything in between—these writers are sharing their unfiltered journeys so you can learn, relate, and feel a little less alone in yours.
urethra baby
Written by : Tamar Simone Weir Pelvic Floor its been a while now baby this throbbing, achy feelin this holding onto something not mine but mine its been a while
Does a Threesome make you Non-Monogamous? My Hot Take.
If a married couple has a threesome a few times a year, are they non-monogamous? Some would say yes. I'm not so sure. In this post I'm unpacking the differe
Disability Didn't Kill My Sex Drive
Chronic illness changed how Coach Tiff's body works, not what it wants. On disability, desire, and why collaborative intimacy beats performance every time.
The Fear of Being ‘Too Much’ Sexually
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Is it too much, am I too much or not enough? What's the "right" amount of this or of that and is there such a thing? Good question
Bisexuality Through the Lens of Self Desire
When the first woman you find yourself attracted to is you...
Ureaplasma, can you say that again?
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir My first exposure to understanding and general awareness of ureaplasma, was 3 years ago. At the time, a friend of mine started fee
I Got Scabies. Here's What Non-Monogamy Taught Me About Sexual Health.
On sexual health, skin-to-skin reality, and the conversation worth having before you need to.
what the fuck is up with the pelvic floor
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I've been thinking a lot about the pelvic floor and the pelvis as it has been something that has all of a sudden come into my life
Lauren and The Amazing, Ridiculous, So Good, Very Surprising Sex
A slightly awkward dinner, an unexpected tincture, and an early exit led to the most transcendent smexual experience of Lauren's life. The story, the lesson
why your penis cant stay hard; and why it doesn't really matter
Written by:Tamar Simone Weir A lot of the education I received about bodies and about sex, was very heavily focused on dicks... Now this is not unique to me, as
Bad Listeners Are Bad in Bed
How curiosity, attunement, consent, safety, and sexual pleasure are inextricably linked.
Erotic Poetry, YOU can do it
Many people out there identify as writers, have cultivated a writing practice, whether thats in a journal that no other eye sees, or in a more public way throug
Untitled; Various Poems from my Notes App
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir There's an Alaska airlines plane flying over the freeway A monarch butterfly hits my windshield elegantly And I think about last
Comparative Adolescent Female Sexual Development Western vs. Mosuo Society: Reflection
A reflection on Western shame-based approaches to adolescent female sexuality versus the Mosuo of Southwest China, where it's embraced as a natural truth.
Did you give yourself enough time, but really tho ?
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir You hear people say "slow the fuck down", and what does it mean? Why do we need to slow down when the world is moving so fast, and
shame lives in our body, SO i'm taking it one day at a time
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Artwork done by: Vidushi Yadav When it comes to sexual health, desires, communication, and sexual joy, what I see happen often is
Sex as Creative Collaboration
Cultivating sustainable intimacy in relationship is an artistic endeavor.
Abortion, Planned Parenthood, and the Child We Couldn’t Keep
A man recalls supporting his partner through an abortion during COVID — the grief, the care, and the conviction that reproductive choice always belongs to.
Radical Curiosity: The #1 Tool for $//xual Progress
A tease ahead of my talk with the Sexual Health Alliance
vibrators can be your best friend
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Vibrators.... Vibrators....Vibrators..... In my childhood, adolescence, or teenage years I didn't hear much about vibrators. I kne
Femmes Can Fuck Too
Written by : Tamar Simone Weir Even though Sex and the City is quite problematic, Eurocentric, transphobic and has not aged well, something that I appreciate ab
masturbating in a room full of people
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir In June of 2019 I went to my first kinky BDSM, sex club. This was my first erotic event that I had gone to, although I had been cu
The Sex Drive Mismatch: Why ENM Can Make It More Obvious, Not Less
Sex drive mismatches are incredibly common in long-term relationships, monogamous or non. But when couples step into ethical non-monogamy or the swinging li
the show and tell ; introducing my genitals ..& she goes by she/her
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir When I think about introducing my genitals, I think of basic beginning conversations that are surface level and filled with a lot
The Afterglow: What Happens After Play?
When most couples start exploring the lifestyle, the focus is usually on what happens before and during play: setting boundaries, choosing partners, navigat
Polyamory and STIs
To people who go "polyamorous people must have so many STIs!" - when was the last time you got tested?
CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir CONDOMS <3 CONDOMS <3 CONDOMS <3 Some people love them, some people hate them, but condoms are truly a...
You Don’t Need To Be In Love To Deserve Good Sex.
PSA: You can have sex without love without needing to sacrifice boundaries and respect. You deserve good sex even when you're not in a romantic relationship.
4 Tips For A Successful Threesome
Having a threesome, but feeling left out.? Here's four things you can do to help.
Mirror Work, Part 2: Sensual Mirror Work
Sensual mirror work, as I like to call it, is the practice of using the mirror to create a loving mood.
Your Partner Isn't Responsible For Your Orgasm
So stop fucking them like they are.
A Threesome With You, Your Partner, and Despair
Invite grief into your bedroom.
How to be Good in Bed
from a Certified Sex Therapist.
It's Time To Go Deeper Than Insertive Sex
In collaboration with the 100 Days of Sex Ed at Delvvy
Stop Outsourcing Your Pleasure
Your partner isn’t responsible for your pleasure – you are.
Should you wait to have sex?
And what happens if you waited only to find out the sex is not what you had hoped?
The ABC's of Sex
My framework on how to have the best, most satisfying sex life.
Do you have low desire or...
do you just not like what's on the menu?
Things to forget about sex ASAP
Release these myths to experience a much more satisfying sex life.
My Top 20 Tips for Great Group Sex
So, you’ve decided to dip your toes into group sex? OR you have before but are hoping to increase the odds of a positive experience? OR you just are curious AF?
Oops, I Think I Wet the Bed!
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Your Doctor Needs To Know
In 2016, when I was 40 freaking years old and a divorced mother of three, I had a doctor tell me I should not consent to having barrier-free sex with anyone who
Guest Blog: Great Sexpectations
Many assume non-monogamy is all about the sex. So much so, non-mono folks often avoid bringing it up as an aspect of relationships. But guess what? You should t
Weiss’ SEX Languages and Why I Redesigned Them
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