Tamar Weir

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Tamar Weir offers coaching for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships.

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22 articles by Tamar Weir

urethra baby

urethra baby

Written by : Tamar Simone Weir Pelvic Floor its been a while now baby this throbbing, achy feelin this holding onto something not mine but mine its been a while

The Fear of Being ‘Too Much’ Sexually

The Fear of Being ‘Too Much’ Sexually

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Is it too much, am I too much or not enough? What's the "right" amount of this or of that and is there such a thing? Good question

Ureaplasma, can you say that again?

Ureaplasma, can you say that again?

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir My first exposure to understanding and general awareness of ureaplasma, was 3 years ago. At the time, a friend of mine started fee

what the fuck is up with the pelvic floor

what the fuck is up with the pelvic floor

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I've been thinking a lot about the pelvic floor and the pelvis as it has been something that has all of a sudden come into my life

why your penis cant stay hard; and why it doesn't really matter

why your penis cant stay hard; and why it doesn't really matter

Written by:Tamar Simone Weir A lot of the education I received about bodies and about sex, was very heavily focused on dicks... Now this is not unique to me, as

Erotic Poetry, YOU can do it

Erotic Poetry, YOU can do it

Many people out there identify as writers, have cultivated a writing practice, whether thats in a journal that no other eye sees, or in a more public way throug

feeling held by the pink 

feeling held by the pink 

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir on February 24, 2022 The petals falling rhythmically to their own beat A chorus of movement The stickiness of body under these t

Rain down on me.

Rain down on me.

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir The first real rain of the season awakened a fierce rage within me. The need to do something crazy. I wanted my shit back finall

Untitled; Various Poems from my Notes App

Untitled; Various Poems from my Notes App

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir There's an Alaska airlines plane flying over the freeway A monarch butterfly hits my windshield elegantly And I think about last

Something's gotta last past man

Something's gotta last past man

I didn't have time this week to write anything new so I pulled an older poem from the archives... Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Written on: 5-12-21 my body draw

Did you give yourself enough time, but really tho ?

Did you give yourself enough time, but really tho ?

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir You hear people say "slow the fuck down", and what does it mean? Why do we need to slow down when the world is moving so fast, and

shame lives in our body, SO i'm taking it one day at a time

shame lives in our body, SO i'm taking it one day at a time

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Artwork done by: Vidushi Yadav When it comes to sexual health, desires, communication, and sexual joy, what I see happen often is

what tinder taught me about specificity and getting what i want

what tinder taught me about specificity and getting what i want

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Art by Audrey Jones This blog today will investigate how my many random, hilarious, and weird tinder dates have helped me in gett

falling in & out of love @ the same time WHAT?

falling in & out of love @ the same time WHAT?

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir What does it mean to fall in love? And to fall out of love? When I try to answer these big life questions, I find myself always go

Dear N; a letter written in 2020

Dear N; a letter written in 2020

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Note: The photos included in this blog are photos from 2020 era and I am using a pseudonym for the purpose of not putting every de

vibrators can be your best friend

vibrators can be your best friend

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Vibrators.... Vibrators....Vibrators..... In my childhood, adolescence, or teenage years I didn't hear much about vibrators. I kne

Femmes Can Fuck Too

Femmes Can Fuck Too

Written by : Tamar Simone Weir Even though Sex and the City is quite problematic, Eurocentric, transphobic and has not aged well, something that I appreciate ab

masturbating in a room full of people

masturbating in a room full of people

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir In June of 2019 I went to my first kinky BDSM, sex club. This was my first erotic event that I had gone to, although I had been cu

the racist history of body hair, and yes i'm a hairy femme!

the racist history of body hair, and yes i'm a hairy femme!

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Fuck the beauty Industrial Complex. Let me just start there! In my childhood, I don't remember many beauty standards imposed on me

the show and tell ; introducing my genitals ..& she goes by she/her

the show and tell ; introducing my genitals ..& she goes by she/her

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir When I think about introducing my genitals, I think of basic beginning conversations that are surface level and filled with a lot

lets go dress shopping; gender expansion for youth & the next gen

lets go dress shopping; gender expansion for youth & the next gen

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I've worked in many schools, in many educational spaces, and with LOTS of kids, so many it's hard to count....

CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS

CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS

Written by: Tamar Simone Weir CONDOMS <3 CONDOMS <3 CONDOMS <3 Some people love them, some people hate them, but condoms are truly a...

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