Leanne Million

Leanne Million

Certified Relationship & Sexuality Coach

Leanne is a certified international online Relationship and Sexuality Coach, well-versed and experienced in many different relationship types personally and professionally. She specializes in polyamorous and consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM.

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Certified Relationship & Sexuality Coach

Leanne is a certified international online Relationship and Sexuality Coach, well-versed and experienced in many different relationship types personally and professionally. She specializes in polyamorous and consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM.

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Empowered Poly

Certified relationship coaches Leanne and Greg Million focus on emotional empowerment, sexuality, and relationships, helping listeners move into a more authentic life and feel more connected in their consensually non-monogamous relationships.

32 articles by Leanne Million

Weaponized Autonomy
Communication & Boundaries

Weaponized Autonomy

You are absolutely entitled ALWAYS to decide for yourself what you want to say and do. You have FULL CONTROL over that. That's 100% true.

Prioritizing a Partner is NOT Hierarchy
Metamours & Structures

Prioritizing a Partner is NOT Hierarchy

The inherent assumption is that the status of "highest priority" in hierarchical relationships will remain permanently and never ever waver, which is, for most,

Finding Balance in Polyamory
Metamours & Structures

Finding Balance in Polyamory

If you don't yet know your limits of time, energy and resources, you're about to bump your head on the ceiling of those! So, what can you DO?

Speaking Their Love Language: an Obligation or a Choice?
Communication & Boundaries

Speaking Their Love Language: an Obligation or a Choice?

I wrote this in response to an online post which stated that learning a partner’s love language was never intended for you to feel obligated to fill their needs

I Have Feelings
Mind & Body

I Have Feelings

I have feelings. They are not easily hurt but they have been bruised too many times to count. They have learned to guard themselves. They have been taught that

My Top 20 Tips for Great Group Sex
Sex & Sexual HealthCommunication & Boundaries

My Top 20 Tips for Great Group Sex

So, you’ve decided to dip your toes into group sex? OR you have before but are hoping to increase the odds of a positive experience? OR you just are curious AF?

What’s Wrong with Unicorn Hunting?
DatingMetamours & Structures

What’s Wrong with Unicorn Hunting?

NOTE: Unicorn hunting is when a couple seeks out another person, often a bi woman for a cis/het couple (M/F) to have a s-xual relationship with. The term most o

Is Non-monogamy the Natural State for Humans?
New to ENMCulture & Critique

Is Non-monogamy the Natural State for Humans?

Here's an exerpt: "I'm not here to write a paper debunking the theories of "Sex at Dawn". There's others who have done a much more thorough job of that than I.

What DO You Do? A Chronicle of the Last Six Years
Disability & Neurodivergence

What DO You Do? A Chronicle of the Last Six Years

Don't get me wrong. Everything I did for my family, giving help where I could and the visits - it's all part of a life well lived - and what anyone would do, an

Being Ambiamorous: Part Poly, Part Mono
New to ENM

Being Ambiamorous: Part Poly, Part Mono

Usually one hears "I'm Ambiamorous because I can be HAPPY in either mono or poly relationships" - and bless them for having that experience. At first glance, th

Are There Successful Mono/Poly Relationships?
Metamours & Structures

Are There Successful Mono/Poly Relationships?

The post Are There Successful Mono/Poly Relationships? appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

What is Personal Dissonance & Why Do We Need It?
Mind & Body

What is Personal Dissonance & Why Do We Need It?

The post What is Personal Dissonance & Why Do We Need It? appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

This Polyamory Sh*t is Hard!
New to ENM

This Polyamory Sh*t is Hard!

The post This Polyamory Sh*t is Hard! appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Oops, I Think I Wet the Bed!
Sex & Sexual Health

Oops, I Think I Wet the Bed!

The post Oops, I Think I Wet the Bed! appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Why I’m Polyamorous & Married
New to ENM

Why I’m Polyamorous & Married

The post Why I’m Polyamorous & Married appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Managing Chronic Medical Conditions in a Relationship
Disability & Neurodivergence

Managing Chronic Medical Conditions in a Relationship

The post Managing Chronic Medical Conditions in a Relationship appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Don’t Move In When You’re in NRE
Communication & BoundariesMind & Body

Don’t Move In When You’re in NRE

The post Don’t Move In When You’re in NRE appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Boundaries in Consensual Non-Monogamy
Communication & Boundaries

Boundaries in Consensual Non-Monogamy

The post Boundaries in Consensual Non-Monogamy appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

When You Need Control, You’re Out of It
Communication & Boundaries

When You Need Control, You’re Out of It

The post When You Need Control, You’re Out of It appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

The Truth About Self-Love
Mind & Body

The Truth About Self-Love

The post The Truth About Self-Love appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Rejection is a Gift
Dating

Rejection is a Gift

The post Rejection is a Gift appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Weiss’ SEX Languages and Why I Redesigned Them
Sex & Sexual Health

Weiss’ SEX Languages and Why I Redesigned Them

The post Weiss’ SEX Languages and Why I Redesigned Them appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Change Takes Courage
Mind & Body

Change Takes Courage

The post Change Takes Courage appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

What Stories Do You Tell Yourself?
Mind & Body

What Stories Do You Tell Yourself?

The post What Stories Do You Tell Yourself? appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Abandonment Issues? Me?
Mind & Body

Abandonment Issues? Me?

The post Abandonment Issues? Me? appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Can I SAVE My Relationship?
Communication & BoundariesBreakups & Endings

Can I SAVE My Relationship?

The post Can I SAVE My Relationship? appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Two Types of People in a Relationship
Mind & Body

Two Types of People in a Relationship

There are two types of people in a relationship; Collectors and Investors. Collectors WANT something from you; it might be romance, intimacy, friendship but

When Your Abusive Relationship is with Yourself
Mind & Body

When Your Abusive Relationship is with Yourself

The post When Your Abusive Relationship is with Yourself appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Create Boundaries Not Walls
Communication & Boundaries

Create Boundaries Not Walls

The post Create Boundaries Not Walls appeared first on Leanne Million Coaching.

Surrender to Success
Mind & Body

Surrender to Success

I was BROKE, living off my credit cards and just hoping the car would make it through the winter. It was utterly exhausting being overwhelmed with the burden of

COVID Brings Back Courting
Dating

COVID Brings Back Courting

What to do? Consider risk management, who our choices affect, and perhaps we can embrace a more mature attitude toward developing relationships. Something that

Pain, Sleep Issues, Emotional Reactivity:  Your Body is Screaming, You Aren’t Listening
Mind & Body

Pain, Sleep Issues, Emotional Reactivity: Your Body is Screaming, You Aren’t Listening

If you’re like me, you might be dealing with chronic physical, emotional or mental pain on a fairly regular basis. How do we hear that pain? Do we hear it as a

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