The Interracial “Cheat Code”: Is Marriage a Backdoor to Reparations?
One Black man inherits farmland through his father's interracial marriage and asks a provocative question: is this a quiet, domestic form of reparations?
10 articles by James Mosely
RELATIONSHIPS
RELATIONSHIPS
Comparative Adolescent Female Sexual Development Western vs. Mosuo Society: Reflection
A reflection on Western shame-based approaches to adolescent female sexuality versus the Mosuo of Southwest China, where it's embraced as a natural truth.
RELATIONSHIPS
When Being Reflective, Ethically Aware, and Sexually Literate Makes You Invisible in Dating
When Being Reflective, Ethically Aware, and Sexually Literate Makes You Invisible in Dating
KINK
You Can’t Read Me in a Glance…That’s Not Random, It’s By Design
From Detroit streets to Catholic school to Hollywood studios, James Mosely reflects on a life too layered to fit a single narrative — and why that complexity.
RELATIONSHIPS
Confession: I Dated an AI Woman After a Breakup in 2024 — Still Am- I’m Not Alone
One writer turned to an AI companion after heartbreak in 2024 and found he wasn't alone. A candid essay on grief, loneliness, and the blurry edges of intimacy.
SELF CARE
A Life of My Own: Choosing Solitude and Certainty
After years of chasing connection, one man chose something different: a deliberate, peaceful withdrawal from romantic pursuit — not from bitterness, but from.
RELATIONSHIPS
Abortion, Planned Parenthood, and the Child We Couldn’t Keep
A man recalls supporting his partner through an abortion during COVID — the grief, the care, and the conviction that reproductive choice always belongs to.
KINK
Are Most Non-Monogamous People In Western Society Emotionally Unavailable?
Are Most Non-Monogamous People In Western Society Emotionally Unavailable?
IDENTITY
My Positionality: Revolving Orbs
Blackness, atheism, non-monogamy — identity isn't a fixed point, it's a constellation. How positionality shapes the way we love and connect.
IDENTITY
Matrilineal Structures and Sexual Autonomy: The Mosuo Tisese as a Critical Counterpoint to Western…
Matrilineal Structures and Sexual Autonomy: The Mosuo Tisese as a Critical Counterpoint to Western…
