
Beyond Monogamy
Hosted by Adam & Pris
A longtime lifestyle couple spilling the tea on all things ethical non-monogamy — from hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between. No topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits.
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Latest episodes (196 total)

Mismatched Sex Drives: When Stress, Meds & Menopause Hit
Is there such a thing as a "normal" sex drive? Nope. On this Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris get real about mismatched sex drives: the high, the low, and everything in between. Adam, the self-proclaimed every-single-day guy, opens…
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What If Non-Monogamy Was Normal? Catholic Guilt & Our Other Lives
What would your life look like if non-monogamy had always been normal? A listener voicemail stopped us in our tracks with that question, so Adam & Pris imagine the versions of themselves that never got the chance to exist. We both grew up…
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Where Do You Find Swingers? Apps, Clubs & Meet-and-Greets That Work
Where do you actually find other swingers? It's the number one question in our inbox, our DMs, and our confessional, so on this QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down where the swinger lifestyle really lives: online, in person, and in places you…
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Quickie Mashup: Prostate Play, the P-Spot & Slut-Shaming
New here? Start with this Quickie Mashup! We took two of our favorite past QUICKIE episodes and put them back to back, so new listeners can catch up on the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) talk you might have missed.…
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Sweat, Queefs & Cramps: The Messy Truth About Swinger Sex
The swinger lifestyle sells candlelight, lingerie, and flawless bodies. Then somebody's calf locks up mid-threesome. On this Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the swinger podcast for ethical non-monogamy and open…
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Shibari & Rope Bondage for Couples with Travis of Shibari Sessions
Ever wondered what makes Shibari different from tying your partner to the bedpost? This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the swinger podcast for the ethically non-monogamous and kink-curious, we get happily tangled up with Travis…
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Swinger Safety 101: Emergency Contacts, Vetting & What Ifs
What happens if? It's the question nobody in the ENM lifestyle wants to sit with—but Adam & Pris say it's one of the most important conversations you can have. This week's quickie digs into the paperwork, vetting, and emergency plans that…
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Lifestyle Brain: When Swinger Instincts Follow You Home
Ever catch your swinger brain flirting at the grocery store? Adam and Pris dig into "lifestyle brain" — what happens when your ethical non-monogamy instincts sneak into regular vanilla life, and why it's so easy to misread the signals.…
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The Hot Seat: Adam Answers Swinger Lifestyle & ENM Questions
Adam finally gets put in the hot seat. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Pris flips the script and grills Adam with rapid-fire, no-dodging questions about dating app reviews, his least sexy skill, jealousy, insecurity, and what…
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Who Gets Left Out in the Swinger & ENM Lifestyle Community
Ever feel like the swinger lifestyle has its own high school cafeteria? Adam & Pris are diving into the pecking order nobody likes to admit exists in the ethical non-monogamy community — and who keeps getting left off the invite list. The…
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Swinger Seat Swap: Adam & Pris Answer ENM Questions
Adam and Pris swap seats — and swap personalities. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, our favorite swinger lifestyle podcast hosts answer your ethical non-monogamy (ENM) questions as each other — same voice, same attitude, same…
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Seattle Makes Polyamory a Protected Class: ENM Under the Law
Seattle just made history — and Adam & Pris are unpacking it. This past week, the Seattle City Council voted unanimously to extend anti-discrimination protections to people in polyamorous relationships, adding polyamory, pansexuality, and…
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Older episodes (184)
- QUICKIE: Swingers Stuck in a Vanilla SettingSep 16, 2026
- ENM Mailbag: Lifestyle Burnout, Jealousy & Pool Party GameSep 13, 2026
- To Wax or Not to Wax: Bush, Bald & Body Talk in ENMSep 9, 2026
- Kink Night at Club Eden: Our First BDSM Club ExperienceSep 2, 2026
- The Kinky Bros: Two Brothers Bond Over Rubber, Leather & KinkAug 30, 2026
- Do Swingers Get Nervous? Confidence & Anxiety in the LifestyleAug 26, 2026
- Random Talks: Bedroom Dealbreakers & Swinger Club EtiquetteAug 23, 2026
- Why Are People So Shitty? Swinger Drama, Bullies & TrollsAug 19, 2026
- Catfished! Spotting Fakes in the Swinger Lifestyle (Revisited)Aug 16, 2026
- Swinger Dynamics 101: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Knowing Your NoAug 12, 2026
- Our First Swinger Experiences: Everything We Did WrongAug 9, 2026
- Swinger Birthday Weekend at the Club: Adam's Wild Quickie RecapAug 5, 2026
- Swinger vs Polyamory vs FWB: What's the Real Difference?Aug 2, 2026
- Inside Club Eden: What Makes a Great Swinger Club?Jul 29, 2026
- Predators in the Swinger Lifestyle: Red Flags Every Couple Must KnowJul 26, 2026
- What Makes Someone Slutty? A Swinger Couple Reclaims the S-WordJul 22, 2026
- Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink ConsultantJul 19, 2026
- In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail ConfessionJul 15, 2026
- The Orgasm Gap in the Lifestyle: Why She Comes at Home But Not at the ClubJul 12, 2026
- Broke, Stressed & Still Swinging: When Life Gets in the Way of the LifestyleJul 8, 2026
- From Porn Star to Sex Coach: Stirling Cooper on the Lifestyle, Escorting & Men's Sexual HealthJul 5, 2026
- When They Only Want Your Spouse (And Not You) | Beyond Monogamy QuickieJul 1, 2026
- Sexual Shame, Religious Trauma & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Sex Therapist Natasha HelferJun 28, 2026
- Pressure in the Lifestyle: Are You Pushing Your Partner Too Far?Jun 24, 2026
- Inside Naughty N'Awlins: The World's Largest Lifestyle Event with Founder Bob HannafordJun 21, 2026
- We Were Mid-Conversation and Accidentally Made a Podcast EpisodeJun 17, 2026
- The Evolution of Pris: How 18 Months & An Open Mind Changed EverythingJun 14, 2026
- Double Confessional: Lifestyle Roleplay Tips + Is Your Swinger Actually Poly?Jun 10, 2026
- Polyamory Meets Swinging: Multiamory's Dedeker, Jase & Emily On Unicorn Hunters, Jealousy & Where ENM Communities CollideJun 7, 2026
- When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — Listener Q&AJun 3, 2026
- Myrina & Tristan of The Accidental Swingers on Jealousy, Aging, and Naughty NawlinsMay 31, 2026
- Killer Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an AmbulanceMay 27, 2026
- More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary Every Couple Needs to See | Dillon Birdsall & Spark EroticMay 24, 2026
- Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival GuideMay 20, 2026
- No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDx HealthMay 18, 2026
- Disney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle ClubMay 17, 2026
- How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)May 13, 2026
- Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate MassageMay 6, 2026
- Nina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-MonogamouslyMay 3, 2026
- QUICKIE: We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club (And Pris Owns It)Apr 29, 2026
- HSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney BrameApr 26, 2026
- Newbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a CoupleApr 22, 2026
- Live from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship FirstApr 19, 2026
- Hotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating WeekendApr 15, 2026
- Your Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have EDApr 12, 2026
- The Emotional Labor of the Lifestyle: Who's Really Doing the Work?Apr 8, 2026
- Susan Bratton on Expanded Orgasms, Sexual Biohacking, and the STI Testing Protocol Every Lifestyle Couple NeedsApr 5, 2026
- Is a Couple's Play Partner Off Limits? The Etiquette Nobody Talks About — Beyond Monogamy QUICKIEApr 1, 2026
- Single Fellas in the Lifestyle: Are Single Men Really Ruining the Swinging Scene?Mar 29, 2026
- Red Flags & Green Flags in the Swinging LifestyleMar 25, 2026
- Pris Turns 48: Birthday Bashes, Club Eden, and the Gang Bang She Asked For Out LoudMar 22, 2026
- Pregnancy in the Lifestyle: Fetishes, Scares & the Conversations You Need to HaveMar 18, 2026
- Polyamory, Marriage, and Dating Women: How One Couple Makes Non-Monogamy WorkMar 15, 2026
- How to Last Longer in Bed: Real Tips for Men (That Actually Work)Mar 11, 2026
- Swinger Age Limits? The Truth About Age in the LifestyleMar 8, 2026
- CONFESSIONS: Lifestyle Red Flags, Unrealistic Expectations & Jealousy in ENMMar 4, 2026
- How to Start the Swinging Conversation + Lifestyle Rejection Real TalkMar 1, 2026
- Judged for Ethical Non-Monogamy? How to Handle Critics, Bullies & Moral AuthorityFeb 26, 2026
- Cheating vs Ethical Non-Monogamy: Honesty, Jealousy & Modern Dating CultureFeb 22, 2026
- Swinger Club 101: What Newbies Should Know Before Going to a Lifestyle ClubFeb 18, 2026
- Swinger Education Matters: Inside Forbidden Fruit's WorkshopsFeb 15, 2026
- Swinging Reality Check: What Nobody Warns You About in the LifestyleFeb 8, 2026
- Unfair Swinger Rules: The Boundaries That Break CouplesFeb 4, 2026
- Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & CommunicationFeb 1, 2026
- One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & CommunicationJan 28, 2026
- Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha KauppiJan 25, 2026
- How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality)Jan 21, 2026
- Luxury Lifestyle Cruises Explained: Inside LLV Club's Adults-Only Travel ExperiencesJan 18, 2026
- Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start SafelyJan 14, 2026
- Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita "Lavitaloca" SawyersJan 11, 2026
- Instant Gratification in Sex: Why Finishing Fast Isn't a FailureJan 7, 2026
- Polyamory, Jealousy, and Boundaries: Making Non-Monogamy Make Sense with PolyphiliaJan 4, 2026
- Compersion Isn't Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-MonogamyDec 31, 2025
- Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley & Rob)Dec 28, 2025
- Busy Isn't Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle EtiquetteDec 24, 2025
- Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The LifestyleDec 21, 2025
- Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild NightDec 17, 2025
- The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & FreedomDec 14, 2025
- QUICKIE Confessionals: Swinger Secrets, Rejections & Real TalkDec 10, 2025
- Ms. Nookie on Making Consent Sexy & Dating Without Losing Your Damn MindDec 7, 2025
- QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle SurvivalDec 3, 2025
- From Temptation to Transformation: How Tropical Unicorn Travels Redefines Lifestyle VacationsNov 30, 2025
- 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-MonogamyNov 26, 2025
- QUICKIE: Mental Health & The LifestyleNov 19, 2025
- The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel TakeoverNov 16, 2025
- Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy MarriageNov 12, 2025
- Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the LifestyleNov 9, 2025
- Lifestyle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger PartyNov 5, 2025
- Jealousy, Labels & Latino Love: Psychologist Jaime Gama on Ethical Non-Monogamy, Swinging vs. Poly, & Building CommunityNov 2, 2025
- QUICKIE: Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the LifestyleOct 29, 2025
- Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise RelationshipsOct 26, 2025
- QUICKIE: The Great ExpectationsOct 22, 2025
- This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle StereotypesOct 19, 2025
- Forbidden Fruit: How Austin's Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the '80sOct 15, 2025
- Latino Heat In The Lifestyle: Dulce & Angel's Journey from Event Planners to Swing Club OwnersOct 12, 2025
- QUICKIE: Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces"Oct 8, 2025
- Beyond Monogamy Meets The Swing Nation: Origin Story, Clout, and CommunityOct 5, 2025
- QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the LifestyleOct 1, 2025
- Non-Monogamy & The Law: Jonathan Lane on Custody, Contracts & Protecting Non-Traditional FamiliesSep 28, 2025
- When They Want My Spouse but Not Me: Handling Rejection in Ethical Non-MonogamySep 24, 2025
- Faith, Desire & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Rabbi Nikki DeBlosiSep 21, 2025
- QUICKIE: Would You Rather? Ethical Non-Monogamy EditionSep 17, 2025
- Savage Swingers Unleashed: TikTok Fame, Lifestyle Myths & Honest ConversationsSep 14, 2025
- QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your PartnerSep 10, 2025
- Beyond Fantasy: Francesca Gentille on Kink, Jealousy & Keeping Passion AliveSep 7, 2025
- Quickie Confessions: Our First Time, Fumbles, and Lessons LearnedSep 3, 2025
- Hook, Line, and Lie: When Catfish Swim into the LifestyleAug 31, 2025
- QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?Aug 27, 2025
- Love, Lust, and Lifestyle: Paul Keable Joins Beyond MonogamyAug 24, 2025
- QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?Aug 20, 2025
- When the Big "O" Doesn't Happen: How It Feels on Both SidesAug 17, 2025
- QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?Aug 13, 2025
- Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...NotAug 10, 2025
- Adam's Birthday Weekend Recap: A Celebration To RememberAug 7, 2025
- Pre-Birthday Party: The Calm Before The StormAug 5, 2025
- QUICKIE: Hole Pass: The Anal Episode RevisitedJul 30, 2025
- Inside the Mind of a Unicorn: Jessica Tells AllJul 27, 2025
- Let's Talk Aftercare: Cuddles, Communication, and That Reclaim MagicJul 23, 2025
- When You're Up & They're Down: Loving Through The LowsJul 20, 2025
- QUICKIE: Port Aransas Beach TakeoverJul 15, 2025
- QUICKIE: Animal Cockblocks & Bedroom Interruptions: A Pet Peeve QUICKIEJul 9, 2025
- Queer, Curious & Candid: Catching Up with JeremyJul 6, 2025
- QUICKIE: Why Discretion & Judgment Matter in Non-MonogamyJul 2, 2025
- The High Costs of Swinging: An Honest LookJun 29, 2025
- Polite Turn Downs in Intimate CirclesJun 25, 2025
- QUICKIE: Podcast Therapy: Unpacking Hidden Desires and MisstepsJun 18, 2025
- The Intersection of Swinging and Sex Work: A Candid DiscussionJun 15, 2025
- QUICKIE: Unveiling the Art of Dirty Talk: A Hilarious JourneyJun 11, 2025
- Navigating Friendship Boundaries in the LifestyleJun 8, 2025
- QUICKIE: Flirting: The Awkward Art of AttractionJun 4, 2025
- Navigating the Pressures of PlayJun 1, 2025
- QUICKIE: Navigating the Third Wheel Dilemma in Non-Monogamous RelationshipsMay 28, 2025
- Midlife Mischief: Confidence and Sexuality UnleashedMay 25, 2025
- QUICKIE: When One Partner Wants Poly and the Other Doesn'tMay 21, 2025
- Beyond Monogamy: Cracking the Code of Swinger HierarchiesMay 18, 2025
- QUICKIE: The Role of Labels in Ethical Non-MonogamyMay 14, 2025
- The Double Life: Swing, Kids, and Finding BalanceMay 11, 2025
- QUICKIE: Squirting Uncovered: Embrace the WaterfallMay 7, 2025
- Navigating Emotional Connections in the LifestyleMay 4, 2025
- QUICKIE: An Unforgettable Boogie NightApr 30, 2025
- Empowerment or Objectification: The Hot Wife Culture DebateApr 27, 2025
- QUICKIE: Selective, Not Picky: The Art of AttractionApr 23, 2025
- S1 E22 Discovering Deeper Connections: Beyond Casual EncountersApr 20, 2025
- QUICKIE: Invitations, Expectations, and the Fear of Missing OutApr 16, 2025
- Slutting it Out: Exploring New Horizons in RelationshipsApr 13, 2025
- QUICKIE: Imagined EscapadesApr 9, 2025
- Overcoming The Negatives: Lessons from Beyond MonogamyApr 6, 2025
- QUICKIE: When Four Doesn't Connect: Uneven Attraction in CouplesApr 2, 2025
- Inside or Outside: Navigating Connections in the LifestyleMar 30, 2025
- QUICKIE: The Adam Theory: Understanding Happy Vibes in the LifestyleMar 26, 2025
- Swinger Lingo 101: Understanding the BasicsMar 23, 2025
- QUICKIE: Conversations on Clits and Balls: Unpacking DesiresMar 19, 2025
- Facing Rejection: The Inevitable R-WordMar 16, 2025
- QUICKIE: Size Matters: The Truth RevealedMar 12, 2025
- Infidelity in the Lifestyle: A ParadoxMar 9, 2025
- QUICKIE: Trust, Transparency, and IntimacyMar 5, 2025
- Communicating Through ComplexityMar 2, 2025
- QUICKIE: Sensual vs Non SensualFeb 26, 2025
- Swinging: Strengthening Bonds or Breaking Them?Feb 23, 2025
- QUICKIE: Flirting Fumbles: A Guide to ConnectionFeb 19, 2025
- Lessons in Consent: Protecting Personal BoundariesFeb 16, 2025
- QUICKIE: Adam's Ultimate Blowjob FantasyFeb 12, 2025
- When Respect Meets Desire: Navigating Public AffectionFeb 9, 2025
- QUICKIE: From No to Maybe: A Journey in Anal PlayFeb 5, 2025
- Exploring Separate Play: Finding Freedom in FidelityFeb 2, 2025
- QUICKIE: Our Favorite ExperiencesJan 29, 2025
- Unveiling Our Five-year Polyamory JourneyJan 25, 2025
- QUICKIE: The Good, the Bad, and the Erotic of Oral SexJan 22, 2025
- Bisexuality in the Lifestyle: An Insightful ExchangeJan 19, 2025
- QUICKIE: Discovering the Kink of Cum PlayJan 15, 2025
- Drama in the Lifestyle: Why it Happens and How to Manage ItJan 12, 2025
- QUICKIE: Navigating the World of Sex ClubsJan 8, 2025
- Beyond Acceptance: The Real Fear of Lifestyle AnxietiesJan 5, 2025
- QUICKIE: Lifestyle House Parties: A Firsthand AccountJan 1, 2025
- Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid DiscussionDec 29, 2024
- QUICKIE: Public Play - Pushing the BoundariesDec 25, 2024
- Exploring the Intricacies of Friendships in a Non-Monogamous LifestyleDec 22, 2024
- QUICKIE: Discovering the Beauty of ThreesomesDec 18, 2024
- Navigating Intimate InsecuritiesDec 15, 2024
- QUICKIE: Embracing the Act of Self-Love: A Pioneering Conversation on MasturbationDec 11, 2024
- What is the Lifestyle? An In-depth ExplorationDec 8, 2024
- QUICKIE: Navigating Fantasies in Relationships: Beyond MonogamyDec 4, 2024
- Diving into the Boundaries and Rules of the LifestyleDec 1, 2024
- The Journey Begins: Our 14-Year Swing & Poly StoryNov 24, 2024
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