QUICKIE: Swingers Stuck in a Vanilla Setting

Ever had to "behave" in a room full of vanilla people? In this QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris get real about the very specific chaos of being deep in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy... and then suddenly finding yourselves surrounded by vanilla friends who have no idea what you get up to.

They break down the wandering-hand incidents, the flirting instincts they had to swallow, the "swingers in the wild" story that started a real friendship, and why judgment from vanilla folks is usually a mirror, not a mic drop. Plus: objectification in the ENM community, who's really "calling the shots" in a swinger relationship, and why porn's objectification argument doesn't hold up the way people think.

• Behaving (or not) in vanilla settings as an experienced swinger couple
• The wandering-hand story that got Adam benched to "hands in lap"
• Spotting real-life swingers in a vanilla bar
• Objectification of women in the non-monogamy community — and the 50/50 problem
• Who calls the shots more: men or women in open relationships?

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