Swinger Safety 101: Emergency Contacts, Vetting & What Ifs

What happens if? It's the question nobody in the ENM lifestyle wants to sit with—but Adam & Pris say it's one of the most important conversations you can have. This week's quickie digs into the paperwork, vetting, and emergency plans that swingers, poly folks, and kitchen-table throuples all need but rarely discuss.

In this episode:

• The "what if" scenarios that keep Adam up at night when Pris plays solo
• Why the early Craigslist days of swinging were scarier than they look back now
• Vetting a new play partner: video verification, verified profiles on 3Fun and SDC, and why a driver's license request might be a red flag
• Real talk on medical emergencies during play, and what happened the one time a partner had to be rushed to the hospital
• Emergency contacts and medical decision-making for poly & kitchen-table relationships (HIPAA workarounds included)
• Why disclosing ailments, allergies, and meds like Viagra before you play isn't a vibe-killer—it's a life-saver

This episode's sponsor: Pleasure Chest — sex-positive since the '70s, with locations in NYC, Chicago, and LA plus a full online shop. Toys, lingerie, kink gear, and body-safe everything, backed by an education-first approach. Head to thepleasurechest.com and go build your own chest of pleasures.

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Upcoming events:

• Austin, TX — November 15th at Forbidden Fruit for our Swinger 101 workshop
• Kansas City, MO — Krazy Winter Nights, February 19–21, 2027. Visit krazykasbh.com and use discount code BEYOMONO for a nice little discount

Whether you're deep in the swinger lifestyle, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or building a poly family, this one's your reminder: communication isn't optional—it's the whole game.