How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

May 13, 202631m

Show notes

Your profile is your first impression — and Adam & Pris have seen some impressively bad ones. On today's Quickie, they break down exactly what makes a swinger and ENM profile actually attract the right people — and what sends everyone running.

In this episode:

  • Why your cover photo being a ceiling fan is costing you connections
  • The face pic debate — privacy vs. actually getting matches
  • What a great bio actually looks like (and what "ask me anything" says about you)
  • Full-body shots, filters, and the danger of catfishing your way into a meetup
  • Why "open to anything" tells people nothing — and specificity is actually sexy
  • The unsolicited explicit opener — just don't
  • Tips for men, tips for couples, and a reminder that there's a lid for every pot

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