Quickie Mashup: Prostate Play, the P-Spot & Slut-Shaming

New here? Start with this Quickie Mashup! We took two of our favorite past QUICKIE episodes and put them back to back, so new listeners can catch up on the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) talk you might have missed.

Quickie #1: The P-Spot Confessional. A listener writes in about prostate play and what it does for him, and it starts a very real conversation. Adam gets candid about an early experience that happened without consent, why toxic masculinity keeps men from talking about male pleasure, and whether he's ready to explore it with Pris. Then we share a practical starter guide: talk first, start slow, and use plenty of lube.

Quickie #2: Sluttiness. What actually makes someone a "slut"? We dig into where the word came from in the 1400s, the double standard between men and women, slut-shaming inside and outside the lifestyle, Adam's hotwife kink, Pris learning to date solo, and why sexual freedom is such a turn-on in an open relationship.

• Prostate play, the P-spot and male pleasure
• Consent, vulnerability and "finding your no"
• Toxic masculinity and the "I ain't gay" myth
• The history of the word slut and the double standard
• Alcohol, THC and lowered inhibitions
• Hotwife fantasies, solo dates and insecurity after 15 years in the lifestyle
• Slut-shaming in the swinger community

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