Quiet Tantrums
Last week I did something impulsive. I felt angry and lonely. Or as my fellow submissive friend has described it, my spiteful baby mode was activated.
6 articles by Saga McFarland
SELF CARE
FEATURED
Will You Hold My Anger, Daddy?
Inherited rage, a Daddy kink, and the question of whether any man can truly hold the weight of intergenerational abandonment and girlhood harm.
KINK
The Aesthetics of Innocence
Post-Epstein feminism says abandon girlish aesthetics. One woman refuses — arguing her innocence, her desire, and her girlhood still belong to her alone.
IDENTITY
Wanting Men After Trauma
A PTSD diagnosis, graduate school in gender-based violence, and still wanting men. One woman searches for a story that makes desire feel like courage, not.
KINK
The Political Risk of Denying Eros
When the White House posted a Daddy kink meme, one writer confronted her own submission desires — and found a political case for trusting erotic longing.
KINK
Calling Men Daddy and the Politics of Ick
The ick is wisdom, not internalized patriarchy. One woman traces her Daddy kink through guilt, bad breakups, and the moment her body finally proved it right.
