Non-Monogamy Help Podcast

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Oct 9, 202626m
Episode 192 - Long Distance Priority
A partner with a long-distance, hierarchical dynamic wonders if wanting dedicated phone calls and a family introduction is asking too much. It isn't.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of…
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Sep 25, 202627m
Episode 191 - Cheating, Not Polyamory
Repeated cheating, gaslighting, and coerced sex get dressed up as non-monogamy. On telling the difference, setting a boundary, and when to bring in outside support.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio…
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Sep 11, 202625m
Episode 190 - Anxiety Misfiring
Anxiety about a partner's other relationships isn't a malfunction. It's a fear shaped by a monogamy-centric upbringing. On self-compassion, control, and what you can actually manage.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find…
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Aug 28, 202622m
Episode 189 - Pre-Approving Partners
A partner accused of cheating despite following the rules asks how much control is too much. On confronting, consenting, or cutting ties with a controlling agreement.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio…
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Aug 14, 202624m
Episode 188 - Coming Out Later
A crumb seems like a feast to someone who's starving, but the meals you actually deserve change what you're willing to accept. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full…
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Jul 31, 202623m
Episode 187 - Ex Becomes a Metamour
Take the Beducated quiz and sign up with my link here: https://beduc.at/pd2627-lolaNo relationship is inherently safer than any other, and trying to control every possible outcome only breeds the fear it's meant to prevent.That's what's…
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Jul 17, 202628m
Episode 186 - Communication Versus Gaslighting
Telling someone they're wrong when they see withdrawal of affection is gaslighting-adjacent, even if unintentional.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Non-Monogamy…
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Jul 3, 202617m
Episode 185 - Relationship Anarchy and Autonomy
Autonomy means freedom to make choices, but those choices have consequences for the people affected by themThat's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on Non-Monogamy Help.This…
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Jun 19, 202630m
Episode 184 - Dating a Co-Worker
Shrinking to make space in a partner's life only suffocates oneself and creates resentment that will eventually become unavoidable.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on…
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Jun 5, 202624m
Episode 183 - Disclosure and Privacy in Polyamory
Sometimes the best way to address fear of missing out is to invite partners to share new experiences, rather than tell them afterwards.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on…
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May 22, 202623m
Episode 182 - Permission in Polyamory
Consideration means giving the reins over and allowing emotions to decide whether a partner is allowed to go on a date, which isn't fair.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on…
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May 8, 202631m
Episode 181 - One P*nis Policies
Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website.This…
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