Modern Anarchy
Hosted by Dr. Nicole
Modern Anarchy with Dr. Nicole explores ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and relationship anarchy through honest conversations with guests and solo deep dives.
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Latest episodes (283 total)
281. Finding Kinky, Non-Monogamous Community – Ryan Ash
On today’s episode, we have Ryan (she/they) join us for a conversation about the messy and oh so human journey of expansive relating. Together we talk about the resilience that comes with healing from trauma, knitting in the dungeon, and…
280. The Ego Dissolution of Sex and Pleasure - Jordan Dobrowski
On today’s episode, we have Jordan (she/they) join us for a conversation about learning to release control. Together we talk about slowing down to savor, continued-care, and celebrating your growth story. 🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based…
279. Loving People by Not Controlling Them - Laura Mae Northrup
On today’s episode, we have Laura (they/them) join us for a conversation all about the continued practice of being in your aliveness. Together we talk about orgasms as prayer, playing on psychedelics, and the liberatory practice of…
278. The Pleasurable Polyamory Paradigm Shift – Ken Hamilton
On today’s episode, we have Ken (he/they) join us for a conversation about all the mistakes that were made along the way. Together we talk about releasing shame through conversation, coming out as polyamorous to your kids, and what makes…
277. Do Educated Women Choose Polyamory? - Dr. Elisabeth Sheff
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Eli (she/her) join us for a conversation about the contemporary research on non-monogamy. Together we talk about infidelity stats, when the threesome doesn’t live up to reality, and creatively designing…
276. Sexual Pleasure in a F**ked up World – Jason Best
On today’s episode, we have Jason (he/him) join us for a conversation about tapping into pleasure during these complex times. Together we talk about prioritizing time for sexual pleasure as new parents, when your therapist is at the sex…
275. Psychedelic Sexuality, Spirituality, and Pleasure Sovereignty – Kayla Felten
On today’s episode, we have Kayla (she/they) join us for a conversation all about reclaiming erotic sovereignty. Together we talk about integrity within power dynamics, reconnecting with your intuition, and the transformation of being…
274. Spunky, Kinky Kitten to Witchy, Erotic Crone – Elmo Painter
On today’s episode, we have Elmo Painter (she/her) join us for a conversation about the evolution of the erotic. Together we talk about being in caterpillar soup, sex magic rituals, and embracing the question marks.🔥Pleasure Liberation:…
273. Erotic Authenticity: A Lesbian in a Mixed, Open Relationship – Coco Henri
On today’s episode we have Coco (she/her) join us for an conversation all about erotic authenticity. Together we talk about coming out later in life, finding belonging within ourselves, and doing the scary thing anyways because discomfort…
272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller
On today’s episode, we have Cash (they/them) join us for a conversation about reprocessing trauma and savoring your pleasure. Together we talk about queering the field of psychology, the power of dance, and being devoted to nature.…
271. Sexpert Swinger Cruises: F**king up more than you f**k - Amber Mallery
On today’s episode, we have Amber (she/they) join us for a conversation all about being a messy, real human on their pleasure journey. Together we talk about pleasure mapping, vulnerably cracking your heart open, and the breath of a good…
270. The Wild Ride of Following Your Pleasure - Karen Yates
On today’s episode, we have Karen (she/they) join us for a conversation about healing in relationships. Together we talk about actually feeling your trauma, the language of pleasure, and becoming present with yourself.🔥Pleasure…
