56. Building a Relationship Contract: Queer Theory, Kinky Monogamy, and the Relationship Escalator with Tom Doctor

May 11, 202244m

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On today's episode, we have sex and relationship therapist Tom Doctor (He\Them) join us for a conversation all about approaching our relationships with curiosity. Together we talk about the healing  nature of community, questioning the "shoulds," and turning our relationship contracts into google docs.

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Resources to Learn More: 

Introduction: Antinormativity’s Queer Conventions

What is the Relationship Escalator?

Timing Is Everything When It Comes To Marriage Counseling

Why Every Couple Needs a Relationship Contract

From housework to sex, here's how relationship contracts can help couples

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