104. From Serial Monogamy to Polyamory and The One Penis Policy with Chad from PolyamFam

On today's episode, we have Chad (He/Him) from PolyamFam join us fo a conversation all about the wild learning journey of non-monogamy. Together we talk about the one penis policy, designing your own relationship structures, and the pitfalls of open-relating.

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Resources to Learn More:

Sexual Desire and Relationship Duration in Young Men and Women : https://sci-hub.ru/10.1080/0092623x.2011.569637

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it : https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/

Monogamy Is In Its Flop Era. Women And Femmes Are Leading What’s Next : https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/alessadominguez/why-women-choose-nonmonogamy

Polyamory By the Numbers : https://www.advocate.com/current-issue/2016/1/08/polyamory-numbers?amp=

Are Women More Into Polyamory Than Men? : https://jezebel.com/are-women-more-into-polyamory-than-men-1795171754/amp

One-third of Americans say their ideal relationship is non-monogamous: https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2020/01/31/millennials-monogamy-poly-poll-survey-data

National Survey Reveals Generational Differences in Consensual Non-monogamy: https://ifstudies.org/blog/national-survey-reveals-generational-differences-in-consensual-nonmonogamy-

Sex at Dawn: https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780061707810

Infographic: A New Look at Monogamy Across the Animal Kingdom: https://www.the-scientist.com/infographics/infographic-a-new-look-at-monogamy-across-the-animal-kingdom-70044

Marital Rape Laws: https://ualr.edu/socialchange/2018/04/15/reflection-history-sexual-assault-laws-united-states/