
Do As We Say Not As They Did
Hosted by Liz Powell
Dr. Liz Powell gets real about love, sex, and poor decisions — a frank, funny, and deeply honest podcast about non-monogamy and building healthier relationships.
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Latest episodes (27 total)

Has The Internet Made Dating Worse?
Women told men to stop approaching them, but now they're upset that men aren't taking charge? So what are men even supposed to do?! In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley dig into a post…

Are Men Actually Lonelier than Women?
Is the male loneliness epidemic a real thing, or just something the internet won't stop talking about? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell are getting right to the point: men are definitely…

The Internet Has Broken Your Dating Standards
Are gold diggers actually lurking around every corner, just waiting to drain your bank account…or has dating advice on the internet convinced a whole bunch of men to fear a problem they most likely don't have? In this episode of Do As We…

Why Do All Dating Apps Suck Now?
Would you pay over $60,000 to find a date? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell skip the Reddit disasters and get right to the source of modern dating…and why it sucks so much. Reading…

Are You Missing These Relationship Red Flags?
If your partner starts talking to you in a different language the first time you get in bed together, what would your reaction be? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley get back to their…

Voice Memo Guy: Consent, Coercion, and Boundaries
Have you heard about the infamous TikTok Voice Memo Guy? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell fill you in on all the details, some questionable twists, and their thoughts on how weird it is…

Hard Truths About Male Loneliness
How do you react when people tell you things you wish you'd never heard? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell are joined by Evita Sawyers for a conversation about emotional responsibility,…

The Truth About Jealousy in Polyamory
Have you ever set yourself up to get hurt, but you just couldn't help yourself? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley are joined by the brilliant Jessica Daylover. Polyamorous since 2013,…

Love or Control? AI Girlfriends, Consent, and Polyamory
Is it better to be in a relationship where you're constantly contorting yourself to avoid saying "no," or one where your partner can't say "no" at all? Trick question. The answer is neither. In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They…

Dating Apps Aren't Keeping You from Finding Love
Could your biggest obstacle to dating success be the advice you've been following? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley endure the trenches of r/PurplePillDebate, a supposedly neutral…

Love Isn't Enough to Make a Relationship Work
Is there a secret formula for healthy, conflict-free relationships? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley have an insightful yap session about why so many people approach dating and…

What Your Jealousy Is Actually Telling You
Are some people just wired for jealousy, with no hope of changing, or is it actually the check engine light for your relationship? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell discuss Psychology…