
Do As We Say Not As They Did
Hosted by Liz Powell
Dr. Liz Powell gets real about love, sex, and poor decisions — a frank, funny, and deeply honest podcast about non-monogamy and building healthier relationships.
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Latest episodes (30 total)

Online Dating Is Weird. This Baby-Making Site Is Weirder.
Have you ever noticed how much online dating advice focuses less on solving real problems and more on inventing solutions to problems that don't exist? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell…
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Maybe Your Looks Aren't the Reason You're Single
Why are people so worried about the attractiveness gap? What about the kindness gap? The "I can do chores around the house" gap? The emotional processing gap? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris…
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How Aging Changes Your Relationships w/ Wendy Strgar
We're all going to get older, so why does our culture treat aging like one of the worst things that can happen to us and our desire? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell are joined by Wendy…
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Has The Internet Made Dating Worse?
Women told men to stop approaching them, but now they're upset that men aren't taking charge? So what are men even supposed to do?! In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley dig into a post…
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Are Men Actually Lonelier than Women?
Is the male loneliness epidemic a real thing, or just something the internet won't stop talking about? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell are getting right to the point: men are definitely…
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The Internet Has Broken Your Dating Standards
Are gold diggers actually lurking around every corner, just waiting to drain your bank account…or has dating advice on the internet convinced a whole bunch of men to fear a problem they most likely don't have? In this episode of Do As We…
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Why Do All Dating Apps Suck Now?
Would you pay over $60,000 to find a date? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell skip the Reddit disasters and get right to the source of modern dating…and why it sucks so much. Reading…
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Are You Missing These Relationship Red Flags?
If your partner starts talking to you in a different language the first time you get in bed together, what would your reaction be? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley get back to their…
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Voice Memo Guy: Consent, Coercion, and Boundaries
Have you heard about the infamous TikTok Voice Memo Guy? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell fill you in on all the details, some questionable twists, and their thoughts on how weird it is…
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Hard Truths About Male Loneliness
How do you react when people tell you things you wish you'd never heard? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell are joined by Evita Sawyers for a conversation about emotional responsibility,…
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The Truth About Jealousy in Polyamory
Have you ever set yourself up to get hurt, but you just couldn't help yourself? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley are joined by the brilliant Jessica Daylover. Polyamorous since 2013,…
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Love or Control? AI Girlfriends, Consent, and Polyamory
Is it better to be in a relationship where you're constantly contorting yourself to avoid saying "no," or one where your partner can't say "no" at all? Trick question. The answer is neither. In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They…
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Older episodes (18)
- Dating Apps Aren't Keeping You from Finding LoveJul 15, 2026
- Love Isn't Enough to Make a Relationship WorkJul 8, 2026
- What Your Jealousy Is Actually Telling YouJul 1, 2026
- The Secret Ingredient to Better Intimacy?Jun 24, 2026
- What Do Men Do When Women Don't "Need" Them?Jun 17, 2026
- How Misogyny Ruins RelationshipsJun 10, 2026
- Polyamory Won't Fix Your Relationship, but It Sure Will Expose ItJun 3, 2026
- How the Manosphere Feeds the Ego, but Starves the SoulMay 27, 2026
- Why Every Body Benefits from Accessible Adult Toys w/ Step TranovichMay 20, 2026
- The Lie Incels and Looksmaxxers Are Trying to Sell YouMay 13, 2026
- Why Does Fashion Have Gender Anyway - W/ Rae HillMay 6, 2026
- Is Heated Rivalry the Answer to the Male Loneliness Epidemic?Apr 29, 2026
- Dating App Green Flags, Red Flags, & Hell No'sApr 22, 2026
- Do Women Actually Care About Load Size…or is it Just Other Men?Apr 8, 2026
- Technology Won't Solve Your Trust IssuesMar 25, 2026
- We Need to Talk About Madeline OR: The r/Polyamory MusicalMar 11, 2026
- Backhanded Compliments and Surprise Jehovah's Witness MeetingsFeb 25, 2026
- Three AI Chatbots Walk Into A Couple's Retreat...Feb 11, 2026
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