Bible Belt Swingers: The Detective, the Therapist & the Lifestyle

What happens when a sex crimes detective falls for his therapist, and they end up swingers in the Bible Belt? Adam and Pris sit down with Kole and Bella Hart, a Texas couple living the swinger lifestyle while still sitting in a pew every Sunday. He's a former detective turned firefighter. She's a former therapist who now teaches Bible class. Together they're proof that ethical non-monogamy doesn't look just one way.

In this episode of the Beyond Monogamy swinger podcast:

• How a detective and his therapist met: two sessions, a discharge, and a lost license
• Going from seeing himself as a "sexual deviant" to embracing ethical non-monogamy
• Bella's journey from never having heard of swinging to full swap
• Faith and the swinger lifestyle: feeling like a hypocrite in church, and finding peace
• Jealousy, being territorial, and the "not her" veto
• Pre-claiming, reclaiming, and why aftercare matters
• Starting an OnlyFans as swingers, and the "you're not real swingers" critique
• Advice for the curious couple next door who's scared to bring it up

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