74. Do This Before Opening Up with Nancy & Jonny

Show notes

Nancy and Jonny spent months focusing on education, workshops, community, and strengthening their communication before taking their first steps into non-monogamy.

In this episode, they share what that intentional process looked like, the challenges they encountered, and how moving slowly helped them build a deeper sense of safety and trust in their relationship.

They also share practical communication tools that helped them navigate difficult emotions, including one simple but powerful question partners can ask each other: Do you need to be helped, hugged, or heard?

Resources mentioned:

Queering Existentialism (Unlearning Mononormativity workshop and others):

https://www.queeringexistentialism.com/

Jonny’s Self-Love playlist:

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1JszNHS2Bw95szUQtDaTG8?pi=K4mgv1OrTY2g1

House Of Scorpio Lip Service Party

https://www.houseofscorpio.com/index.html

Book: All Fours By Miranda July

https://mirandajuly.com/all-fours/

New York Jacks (Masturbation Party):

https://nyjacks.com/

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